Luke 2:41-52
January 5, 2025
When my two oldest nephews were little, they loved to watch
the movie, Home Alone. Somewhat
surprisingly, my dad really loved to watch it with them, not because he was
enamored by the movie itself, but because he loved to listen to his grandsons
laugh with delight at all the traps set for the bad guys. I have vivid memories
of my dad and my nephews sitting on the sofa together with a bowl of popcorn
between them watching Home Alone and
laughing and laughing.
Home
Alone is now considered a Christmas classic, but just in case you know
nothing about this movie, it lives up to its title. The movie tells the story
of a little boy named Kevin who was accidentally left home alone over
Christmas. His large extended family was taking a trip to Paris for the
holidays, so there’s people and suitcases and a whole lot of kids everywhere. And
even though headcounts are taken, in the frenetic shuffle of wrangling so many
kids and adults into airport shuttles and onto a plane, Kevin, who had gotten
in trouble and been sent to his room the night before, was left behind.
When the rest of the family finally makes it safely on the
airplane, Kevin’s mom keeps thinking that she forgot something, but she can’t
figure out what it is. After the plane takes off and is ascending to cruising
altitude, she remembers. Kevin’s mother, played brilliantly by Catherine
O’Hara, bolts upright in her seat and screams, “Kevin!”
In the meantime Kevin is home alone but holding his own. He
manages to reunite a cantankerous old neighbor with his estranged son and fend
off robbers who discover that this little kid is home and unsupervised. They
think that this house will be an easy target, but they’ve never met a kid like
Kevin before. That’s where the traps come in.
For this
story to be plausible you must believe that an entire family could leave home,
board a plane for another country and forget one of their children. Although I
think the movie is funny, before I had children I couldn’t imagine anyone
forgetting their child. Then I became a mom. It’s not that I have forgotten my children,
but I do know how quickly and how easily losing a kid can happen in a crowded
mall or even outside in the backyard.
Despite Home
Alone, we still might be shocked that Mary and Joseph could have traveled a
full day without realizing that Jesus was missing. Yet they would have traveled
to the festival of the Passover with a large complement of family and traveled
back home the same way. Jesus was 12, on the cusp of manhood, so I can see how
they assumed he was walking with other family members, maybe spending the
journey talking to a beloved cousin. It must have been when they stopped for
the night after that first day of travel, when Mary and the other women were
getting supper together that she and Joseph looked around and said, “Where’s
Jesus?”
We can
imagine the panic that sets in when they realize he’s nowhere to be found. We
can imagine the fear that clutches their hearts when they realize he hasn’t
been with them all day. Even though it’s dark and even though it’s dangerous,
Mary and Joseph go back the way they came, to Jerusalem, to search for their
son. They searched for him for three days.
Three.
Days. Panic would have turned to terror. Three days they searched for him.
Jerusalem was not the modern metropolis it is today, but it was still big and
crowded and there would have been numerous places to get lost. With each day
that passed, their terror would have grown exponentially. We don’t know from
the text what Mary and Joseph were thinking or feeling, but we can guess. We
can guess the different scenarios they were envisioning. Maybe he had been
kidnapped and wasn’t even in the city anymore? Maybe he was hurt and couldn’t
find help? Maybe, maybe, maybe.
But after
three days, they returned to the temple, the object of their original journey,
and there he was! He was sitting among the teachers, listening to them, asking
them questions. He was safe and he was sound. After so many days of unrelenting
fear, Mary and Joseph must have been weak with relief.
When Zach
was little he ran off from me in a crowded mall. I was terrified. When we found
him, really when he wandered up to us, I fell to my knees and cried with
relief. That was after about 30 minutes. Mary and Joseph had been looking for
him for three days. Mary asks Jesus why he did this to them? Why did he treat
them this way? The word that has been translated in our bible as anxiety,
is actually better translated as agony. And it isn’t the typical word
used for anxiety or worry. Luke uses this word one other time in the gospel for
the agony surrounding the cross. This is not just your garden variety worry.
This was the agony of parents who believe their child is lost forever.
Jesus’
response to his parents seems inadequate to our ears.
“Why were you searching for me? Did you not know that I
must be in my Father’s house?”
Yet his response was probably not meant to be flippant or
mouthy. I suspect that he was truly confused by his parent’s response to him.
Again, digging into the Greek helps clarify this a little. The word that we
read as must; I must be in Father’s house is more closely translated as it
is necessary. One commentator wrote that this is code in Luke’s gospel for
the necessity of what Jesus does and says. It is necessary that I be in my
Father’s house. It is necessary that the Messiah suffers and dies. It is necessary
that these things happen in this way. It is necessary that after three days,
the Messiah will rise again.
I have preached this passage before, but I have never
noticed the foreshadowing that lies at the heart of this passage. Jesus’
parents searched for him for three days. It is necessary for him to be in his
Father’s house.
Mary had heard and treasured the things that had been about
Jesus up to this point, but now Jesus shows that he is beginning to understand
his relationship with God, to God, as well. After this exchange between parents
and child, Luke tells us that Jesus returns home with them, and was obedient to
them, submitted to their understanding of who he was to them and his
responsibilities to their family. And Mary once more treasured what she had
seen and heard in her heart.
The passage closes with these words, “And Jesus increased
in wisdom and in years, and in divine and human favor.”
Jesus grew up, not only physically, but emotionally,
mentally, spiritually. He increased in wisdom. He grew into himself and into
his call and purpose. Luke is the only gospel that offers us any insight into
young Jesus. We hear of his birth, we read of his dedication at the temple when
he was still a newborn, and we have a brief glimpse into one moment during
years in between. The next time we see Jesus he will be grown and beginning the
work, the call, he was born to do.
But in the intervening years, in the time that we don’t
read about, the time we can only speculate about, Jesus increases in wisdom and
years.
Although Luke offers significant foreshadowing in this
story about the life and call Jesus will live, I find it profoundly helpful and
hopeful to consider that Jesus had to grow and learn. Jesus had to grow and
learn just as all of us do. He had to figure things out. He had to grow in his
understanding and knowledge of the world around him. He had to learn and grow
into his relationship with God, with God’s people, and with the mantle of call
that had been wrapped around him before his birth.
A commentator on this story shared about when he first
moved to New York City. New York, like many other cities, is always under
construction. There is always a building being constructed or a sidewalk being
fixed, or a road being widened. There are always cranes and jackhammers and
construction sites. The writer naively assumed that one day all that would be
done. The jackhammers would cease, the scaffolding would be torn down, and the
construction crews would go home. But after living there a while, he realized
that the construction would never end. One site might be finished, but another
one would have already begun.
Maybe this is what its like for us to increase in wisdom
and years. We finish one phase with new understanding and insight, only to be
thrust again into a situation where we must learn something new, see through
new eyes, perceive in a way we had not considered before. Jesus is our model in
what it means to love God, to love others, to love ourselves, why shouldn’t he
also be our model in increasing in wisdom? Jesus increased in wisdom and in
years, and while we are not Jesus, it is good news to know that no matter how
old we are, God is not finished with us yet. No matter how much we think we
know, there is always more to learn. God is not finished with us yet. We are
still increasing in wisdom and in years. Thanks be to God.
Let all of God’s children say, “Alleluia.”
Amen.